The Unfiltered Truth from the People Who Never Leave Your Bedside
If you’ve ever been admitted to the hospital—or had a loved one who was—you probably remember the beeping machines, the endless questions, and the feeling of being totally out of control.
What you might not remember? Your nurse. And not because they weren’t there, but because they were everywhere.
We’re the ones adjusting your meds, catching subtle changes in your condition, running down the hallway to stop a code, and quietly advocating behind the scenes to get you the care you need. We see you at your most vulnerable—and we wish we could tell you more. So today, I’m going to.
Here’s what your nurse really wants you to know.
You Matter to Us—Even When We’re Busy
We might be juggling four (or six) patients. We might be behind on charting or waiting on pharmacy. But we see you. We care about your pain, your questions, your fear. If it seems like we’re rushing—it’s because we are. But it’s never because we don’t care.
You’re Allowed to Ask Questions (and You Should)
Don’t assume we’ll think you’re annoying if you ask what a med is for or who ordered a test. We want you to understand. You have every right to ask, “What is this?” or “Why am I getting this now?”
And if you don’t feel heard? Say so. Respectfully, but firmly.
Nurses Catch a Lot—But We’re Not Mind Readers
If you’re in pain, nauseated, confused, or scared—TELL US. Don’t try to tough it out. We’d much rather address your concern early than deal with a crisis later.
You’re part of the team. Speak up.
We’re Advocating for You Behind the Scenes
You may not hear the calls we make to doctors, the orders we question, or the care plans we push to change. But believe me—it’s happening.
Sometimes the most important nursing work is invisible. But it’s there, and it’s for you.
Everything Takes Longer Than It Should—And That’s Not All on Us
Labs, imaging, consults, meds—delays happen all the time, and they’re often out of our control. But we’re still your point person, so the frustration usually lands on us.
We get it. We’re frustrated too. Don’t be afraid to ask for updates—we’ll always do our best to give them.
Be Honest—Even If It’s Embarrassing
We’ve heard it all. Truly. Nothing shocks us. Telling us the truth about your symptoms, habits, or history helps us care for you safely. Holding back because you’re embarrassed? That can be dangerous.
We’re not here to judge. We’re here to help.
You Deserve Respect—and So Do We
We’ll always do our best to treat you with kindness, dignity, and patience. All we ask is the same in return. Healthcare is hard on everyone. A little mutual grace goes a long way.
The Bottom Line
Hospital stays are overwhelming, emotional, and messy. But nurses? We’re your constant. We’re in the room when no one else is. We’re watching out for you even when you don’t see it.
So if you remember nothing else, remember this: your nurse is your teammate. Ask us questions. Trust your instincts. Tell us the truth. And when in doubt—just press the call light.
We’ve got you.
~The Rogue RN